Building Respectful Relationships During Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month
February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month, a critical time to shine a light on the importance of healthy relationships for teens and young adults. At the Rape Crisis Center, we believe that every relationship should be built on the foundations of respect, communication, and consent. These values are not only essential for healthy relationships but also align with our mission to cultivate a safe, nonviolent community where love is rooted in mutual understanding.
Consent is Love
True love cannot exist without consent. Consent is more than “yes” or “no” it’s an ongoing, mutual agreement that shows both partners respect each other’s boundaries, feelings, and choices. Whether it’s holding hands, sharing a kiss, or deciding to take a step back, respect for boundaries is the clearest sign of love.
When we teach teens about consent, we’re teaching them how to communicate, listen, and prioritize their partner’s comfort and autonomy. This helps foster relationships that are free from pressure, fear, or harm which is exactly what love should feel like.
Love is Respect
Respect is the foundation of a healthy relationship. Respect means:
· Supporting each other’s goals and dreams.
· Honoring each other’s independence.
· Accepting “no” as an answer without guilt, pressure, or retaliation.
When respect is at the center of a relationship, it creates a safe environment for both people to grow and thrive.
Know the Signs of Unhealthy Relationships
Unfortunately, not all relationships are built on respect. 1 in 10 high school students face dating violence. It’s important to recognize warning signs, such as:
· Controlling behaviors, like monitoring texts or isolating a partner from friends.
· Disrespecting boundaries or ignoring “no.”
· Emotional abuse, including constant criticism or name-calling.
· Physical violence, threats, or intimidation.
If you or someone you know is in an unhealthy relationship, know that help is available.
How We’re Here for You
At the Rape Crisis Center, we provide free, confidential resources for teens, parents, and anyone impacted by unhealthy or violent relationships. From counseling and support groups to education on healthy relationships, we’re here to help.
This Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month let’s commit to teaching our teens that consent is love and love is respect. Together, we can create a culture where healthy relationships are the norm.
If you need support or want to learn more about fostering safe and respectful relationships, visit rapecrisis.com or call us at 210-349-7273. To learn more about comprehensive resources to engage, educate, and empower young people to prevent and end abusive relationships visit loveisrespect.org or call 1-866-331-9474.